Anytime I watch good football like
Manchester United’s brilliant display this week at the English Premier League,
I see so many lessons that we can learn.
First, think of all the people who
would want to be in that winning team but could not make it because they did
not have the required level of skill. It is not that they were bad. They were
just not good enough.
There will always be room at the top
for the best. A lot of people settle for mediocrity because frankly speaking,
it is easier. It is easier to be good at something than to be the best.
Differentiation by excellence is inevitable if you want to stand out and this
is done by consistent practice and self-development.
You need to practice when no one sees.
Diligence in obscurity always leads to prominence. The hidden part of your life
is responsible for the visible part. The part of your life that is not seen is
what drives the part that is seen. Your private habits become your public
reputation.
You therefore need to be able to
practice and prepare for an opportunity that does not exist yet. Prepare for
opportunities that no one else can see so that when the opportunity arises, you
are ready.
Some people have dreams, but are not preparing for the fulfilment of their
dreams. So they are caught unawares by their own dreams.
Greatness is the default destination
of people who exert themselves preparing for things that no one else can see.
If you cannot prepare for the visions in your head, you will not move beyond
the reality in your hand.
A beauty queen was once asked how she
won every pageant that she contested in. She said that she had watched videos
of beauty queens from around the world thousands of times and practiced in her
room for years, what they did. She revealed when she got to the pageant, she
simply did what she had done thousands of times in her room.
The only difference was that this time
she had an audience. When the opportunity came, she only did in public what she
had perfected in private.
Long before anyone ever called me to
speak anywhere, I would stand in front of a mirror and speak. We had a chapel
at home, and so I would stand in front and imagine myself speaking to people. I
would go to the farm and speak to the goats and the chickens. I did this for
years before any human being ever heard me speak before large audiences.
My practice ground had been in
obscurity. My family would be amused. Today, I speak in different nations in front
of thousands of people every week. I am having the last laugh.
Practice is your way of declaring that
you believe that your dreams will come to pass. You need to be ready because if
you are not, when the opportunity comes there will be no time to prepare. That
will be the time for delivery.
David practiced in obscurity by
protecting his sheep against an attack from a lion and a bear when no one was
watching. It was preparation for Goliath and ultimately for ruling the nation
and defending his people.
While some people are interested in
the minimum level of input, greatness is reserved for those with the maximum
input.
Think of an iceberg. The greatest part
is the unseen part. Think of crude oil. The hardest part is the refining
process. No gift comes refined. Practice is the refinery of champions.
The players that took Man U to victory
were each exceptional in their own rights. That leads to something else.
Winning does not happen because of one
single kick. While it is true that one final kick produces the goal, it is the
end result of consistent passing of the ball from one player to another.
Meanwhile, the other team is working
desperately to stop this passing and take control of the ball. You have to
remain focused and consistent in a very hostile environment. This is the story
of life.
So many obstacles are working to keep
you down, such as your past experiences, mind-set and attitudes. Feelings of
unworthiness, of inadequacy and inferiority added to the mix mess up
potentially great people big time.
Friends, if anyone deserves to
succeed, you do. Remember that for all those working hard to keep you down, you
have people who are also working hard to ensure that you win. They are your
team - people who share the same dream as you and who believe in you.
Always remember that you cannot do it
alone. You need a team, a network. You also need a great coach – someone whose
past is your future, whose experience is your expectation.
Have a fulfilled week